
Hello my dear Steemians,
Today I wanted to write for this contest that is running by @ruthjoe, here is the link if you are also interested:
https://steemit.com/steem4nigeria/@ruthjoe/contest-the-secret-to-strong-relationships
Relationship is something that requires a lot of patience, understanding and support from both sides. We are all different and we all have our own point of view, opinion, interests and we all want something that we like, but when there are two or more people we have to listen to all the sides with respect, understanding and then agree on common decision.
It is also important not only to speak but to listen to each other and if needed we need to change ourselves in order to make the relationship to be stronger and for two parties to have a feeling of respect of each other.
When we have a conversation we want the partner to listen and all the signs of good listener are:
- looking into eye or face of speaker
- do not interrupt but let the speaker to speak till the end
- when listening then it is important to ask questions according the subject
- also it is important to give an advise where possible
- this kind of active listening also important to do by both parties
Only a good, active listener shows respect, good manner and interest in the personality of a partner.
To be kind and understanding is very important, in our every day life we do something wrong sometimes small stuff and often we do not ask for forgiveness. There are many small and not really important stuff but there could be serious problem and in such situation it is important openly to discuss so that both could help each other. Therefore, being honest, open and understanding but also to be able to forgive will make the relationship stronger.
It is always difficult to judge relationship of different people, we are all different and we behave differently too. But commonly it is important to be open, supportive, helpful to each other. Do not have secrets and also if there is any difficult situation better to speak up and to share it with partner, that usually make relationship stronger and t he problem less difficult for both parties. Respect and support are very important that help to keep our relationship as strong as in early stage of relationship.
I am inviting following users for contest: @rumanaafroz, @monz122, @uzma4882

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Relationship can be strong when there's true communication between the two parties involved. Like you said patience is very important in building strong relationships. We appreciate your write-up keep posting quality content. Cheers.
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Great post! Strong relationships need patience, respect nd teamwork. Listening carefully nd forgiving mistakes keeps love alive. Secrets nd lack of communication can hurt trust but honesty nd support make bonds stronger. Thanks for sharing these wise tips! 💙
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