![img](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmRNSP5DeNutSwa6991DNaW2w9s81E6xo75ZNVzFNfio7x/anime-art-artistic-262272.jpg)_{Photo by Pixabay from Pexels. [source](https://www.pexels.com/photo/alone-anime-art-artistic-262272/)} Many people do not know what they want in life. This is a common reality for many people this days. This is not something we should judge easily because probably we do not know either for sure. Hello there _CryptoNauts,_ I hope you are having a great time and if don't, maybe you should ask yourself **what is going on in your life**. _{**The following post is some kind of personal/public/virtual and cosmic catharsis, so take it and use it at your own risk. Some of the following paragraphs may seem a bit "crazy" or maybe not**.} While is true than too many people seems to walk around like _zombies_ or, putting it in a better way, walking without being fully aware of themselves, the thing is when all of this "common" behaviour may affect us and even makes us stumble our feet. At this point we must do something in order to stay surrounded only by those who may help us to **get where we want to go** or at least **learn how to stay apart from the common negativity**. ### Actual Landscape Being negative it is become so _common_ for most people than even if you see somebody very happy you may think it may be because of drugs or something similar. Have you ever wonder: **what the fuck is wrong with the news?**. Have you ever wonder about _what is the point about showing just the negative part of the events?_ It seems that this **crude reality** that we see in Television or Social Media, is taking us apart from the optimism. #### Are we negatives by nature? That is a good question. Let's deep a bit in the following _hypothetical_ memory: > When I was born I do not remember being negative. I had only very nice thoughts about my parents and even I had very nice thoughts about everything around me. I remember once while trying to touch a German Shepherd(_A Dog_) because He seemed to be so nice. The fact is that he attacked me while I was 8 years old. After this event I became more cautious with every dog. The point here is, We born with some kind of "plane thinking". After being in contact with the people(_including our families_) we start to develop some kind of "sense of no-sense" just because of any beliefs that may be inside of each person. I truly believe that **negativity is not natural for human beings** otherwise I suppose **We should have tried to find a way not to come out of our mothers' bellies, shouldn't we?** ![img](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmaPBUBZpH79nV4B6kkw7M1nNi3SrNJFcKqbPnBmivZStL/art-black-candle-695644.jpg)_{Photo by Rahul from Pexels. [source](https://www.pexels.com/photo/lighted-candle-695644/)} ### Negative is just the other face When we think about negativity, what do we think? How do we imagine it? I could say this is only the other _side of the coin_. All humans are susceptible to both states. So I cannot say "Ramon is a bad guy because He is a negative person" also I cannot say "Laura is a great person because She is so positive". Those _aspects, beliefs and ways of thinking_ are just a _cover_. #### The never ending story At the right time when you become affected for a negative person you must react if you are aware of what is going on. So it looks like our real jobs in life is to decide how to react when we face the positive side of life or the negative side of life. I say _life_ by putting in the same group: persons, thoughts, events, etc. I remember while being a negative person some months ago. I can remember this: - I was angry just because watching a girl laughing. - I was angry because I could not find time to exercise myself. I will stop here with those 2. After start meditating again and after **really start paying attention about what was going on here** I could see the following: 1. "I was angry just because watching a girl laughing". Very deep inside I was unsatisfied with myself because **I couldn't find a real way to make me happy.** 2. "I was angry because I could not find time to exercise myself". I haven't the time because I was very much occupied holding **shit inside of my head, including negativity**. > Can you see the truth behind those observation and conclusions? I hope you can see it and use it for yourself. Otherwise you may end **as the vast majority of people in the world right now**. The _never ending story_ is that the only way to notice the truth is by going deeper. ### Alone or not alone - "That is the question" If we don't have a proper state of mind where we can _handle_ other's people negativity yet, then I will suggest we stay as possible, alone. I know this sounds very radical and even it may be categorised as _antisocial_, but, I believe this is the only way we could deep in ourselves so after this process, we can reintegrate into social life again. I prefer not to be so radical and I will state the followings: 1. If I can't handle my own negativity, I could not handle other's. 2. If I cannot see my own reflection on others I could not move forward in life. _Of course this is optional if you believe that each person is a mirror and what we see is what we are or feel_. 3. In order to take care of our projects, goals and time, we must decide to hang around with negative people or just to move on. ![img](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcsiMBgYJ7MVnjPHgXrtPdZf8SAGpQJEnvekRdZSAFXtD/antique-book-bindings-books-1005324.jpg)_{Photo by Skitterphoto from Pexels. [source](https://www.pexels.com/photo/book-page-1005324/)} ### The truth - or at least - The awful one Each and every person on this planet who may have the 100% of their capabilities **it can decide what to think, what to say and how to react and act**. This is not bullshit even if those people are not aware of this. So if every human being is able to decide every second of their lives, how the hell Do I pretend to change them in any possible way? I believe this is the famous **free will**. So better we start finding our own paths and take care of ourselves, because the time is short and the future is unknown. Peace Out.