Hi @miyexi thankyou for giving me the privilege to share the story of one who played a remarkable role in my life. I will start by describing the kind of person he is. His name is @deetalka6.

![IMG_20231020_141400_410.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmU3YEEU2h5s9qTN5fLCCfK2oRkdwMVLxtUnLQXgVeX5T2/IMG_20231020_141400_410.jpg) I met @deetalka6 in school three years ago. He was not actually my direct friends, he was a friend to one of my female friend. But there's something so unique I found in him. He doesn't discriminate. Inspite of the fact that we come from different ethnicity. @deetalka6 treats me as one of his precious diamond. Along the run, I discovered that the person he was looking out for wasn't interested in him. And so, I used that style to walk into his life. It wasn't easy, mostly when you're the only one pushing out the love from the other end. > What class was @deetalka6 then? Both me and @deetalka6 were in 100 level.

I could remember very vividly when going to the restaurant to eat our meal. @deetalka6 will buy pure water, zobo and some other minerals for us to drink after eating. He played the role of a senior brother, until I personally activated his role in my life as a **Senior brother**. ![IMG_20231020_141409_676.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZQcuwz7Psr2NmWhfZkNuXeEbggYHxddtyp95og5SVH5N/IMG_20231020_141409_676.jpg) I know how many times different guys walk up to me asking for friendship. I will redirect them to my senior brother, tell them to seek permission from him first. And so anyone that comes back with @deetalka6 permission has access to my life. Nobody ever came back. Why? @deetalka6 told me that those guys are not for real. He said: **they are drunkers, smokers, thieves, rapist, etc. He said, I should snub them, that they are not meant for me. He added that they've been infatuated by my physical appearance.

Above all, @deetalka6 made me to realize that **the kind of man you wish to marry depends on the place you find yourself. If you find yourself in a club, club men will come close to you seeking for marriage or a date. If you find yourself in U.S.A, men there will find you catchy**.

I invite @bossj23, @eglis and @damithudaya to participate