Hello sparkling women!

It is nice to meet you up again i'm glad to know that everyone is fine over here, i'm grateful to everyone in this community. Always stay safe and endeavour to carry out all the preventive measures to protect yourself from covid19. Today i'm going to tell you all about a remarkable day in my life, it is a day I will always remember. I'm telling you all in details how my marriage went, it was successful. ![IMG_20211014_075418.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbKMzJQE3mpMfA1otnaaxECkwk9gXZ75nHhWexLcu5aLX/IMG_20211014_075418.jpg) First, I know you all saw how it started, here is the post [link](https://steemit.com/hive-188403/@eliany/thedairygame-season-3-or-or-the-beginning-of-a-school-without-graduation-i-said-yes) And this [Link](https://steemit.com/hive-188403/@eliany/invitation-to-steemians-wedding-by-eliany-or-or-10-of-this-post-reward-goes-to-steemwomenclub) Families are different, culture is different too and each of us has different choices of doing things. So let me tell you how my choice of marriage arrangements went. ### TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE RITES After my engagement, my parents and my husband parents met each other and requested for marriage list to proceed which was given to them and a day was fixed for introduction/settlement of list. On that day both families really know each other. It's always a joyful day and so there was lot of foods and drinks for guests. So after settlement of the list i was called to come out for my husband family to be sure of the person they are coming for. It wasn't a big occasion, it was done in a palour setting where only my immediate family members where present, to witness the events. ![_MG_4329.JPG](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmaEJoveZgzZ1NptRjwuNpDkZTRNooveoVZptW6JSSX9GT/_MG_4329.JPG) *Here comes the bride* ![IMG_20211013_145223.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb6MoVuxrxEDkXzCcHA6AAs6GBcgvJWCQDav65yxmrfbw/IMG_20211013_145223.jpg) *The groom was very happy when I came out, you can see the smile* ![IMG_20211013_145202.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZ3bRoZQ88oy7hdPKJf8qVWkgyR96dvurqsK4K5DAG1QV/IMG_20211013_145202.jpg) *He stood up for his beautiful wife* ![IMG_20211013_150353.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbxbc2HrszJnxdEusr7dPPmm7PE5GxyN5NjqjaZ6eoH3A/IMG_20211013_150353.jpg) *I responded with a lovely smile* ![IMG_20211013_150339.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdSTUTBTEbXYpbWxcsentgBmCpXsvwG9uCLvP66ioP7cD/IMG_20211013_150339.jpg) ![IMG_20211013_150125.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmR7FGkxL7UE3dWLro4ZPrq94qeyHz9vPaXYpy5N81FFUd/IMG_20211013_150125.jpg) ![IMG_20211013_150918.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQpGr764de6Vhyyd9yf9jgd8X7fLq9ayp73eCoadBFiSE/IMG_20211013_150918.jpg) *Traditionally cealed* ### LEGALLY CEALED As I said before that everyone has their choice of marriage arrangements. So my own choice we went to supreme high court to legalized our marriage. We filled marriage form to uptained our certificate, so we are in this life journey together forever. ![IMG_20210908_151527.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYjdJxa699HEXmsE25PVxCNmaecr2ef6dErQXodHy7jxR/IMG_20210908_151527.jpg) *In the court* ### THE DAY WE RECEIVED THE CERTIFICATE And so on this day we were reminded how marriage started and the guidelines the originator of marriage has given to all married people. We also exchange our martial vows on this day, signed our marriage certificate and my witness which was my dad also signed, it was a joyful day. ![IMG_20210915_121545.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbQN3UgUsLpsdyWcnAnq18n5co9CtWaoKVa1dcUssZC2f/IMG_20210915_121545.jpg) *We were happy* ![IMG_20210915_121613.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdXf6s5nynbjzmkf5kSaH84m11FvkGo1zPAPkNw8UmKfm/IMG_20210915_121613.jpg) *Both parents* ![IMG_20210915_122031.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmWeZPEJ3L4UxziqHy15dfoqtwQsQTK9N5k784r5cS48g9/IMG_20210915_122031.jpg) *My siblings* MY WEDDING DAY ( CEREMONIALLY CEALED) This day was amazing 😍 it was a day I was anticipating everyday, thinking how it will be but it was really successful.

![IMG_20211014_071615.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmP1EG55Ve5fz9NS5fkLRZSHaWPriPzWbtbfn6zNGA1nQf/IMG_20211014_071615.jpg) *How it's started*

![IMG_20211014_071642.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb7iJYTUVtbAGCyo1VfYvHwe9TC8a7voujKLAezwkwjYg/IMG_20211014_071642.jpg) *Then it's done*

![IMG_20211014_071701.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYM7U5Z7QV8cRfNpsyDHeELD3LmBKKgMtAGVEhfBmoqEH/IMG_20211014_071701.jpg) *And the bride was ready for her day*

![IMG_20211014_071829.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbyyM79ERy95cPfathMT5NQSF1ydZVS9D28qvg7bDbx6w/IMG_20211014_071829.jpg) *Finally the bride was ready*

![IMG_20211014_075438.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmSauSxT7WNLDgDPZBhMuEZksSHamdWPc9Y28kiH7VwgST/IMG_20211014_075438.jpg) *The groom was also ready*

![IMG_20211014_075418.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbKMzJQE3mpMfA1otnaaxECkwk9gXZ75nHhWexLcu5aLX/IMG_20211014_075418.jpg) *That's us*

![IMG_20211014_082800.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmegw72SWyxdFTo5J8fUC9aGFW3RNFFNDr7H48FxvBcRCd/IMG_20211014_082800.jpg) *The groom*

![IMG_20211014_075613.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbwA62ozTRQXYdyviZZk2a7thwWLyA98mXfQd8bietUXg/IMG_20211014_075613.jpg) *Bride*

![IMG_20211014_075555.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmfNeMiv7YKEwcfUVmMEWMGyobZdT6XxY4skU6RvvjWhTL/IMG_20211014_075555.jpg) *I and my sis in-law got married the same day*

![IMG_20211014_061752.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmeBfeJWmCHDGeeT8DW8zy6gip5LSRZ5U3MKQqUfhzPNqG/IMG_20211014_061752.jpg) *That's the brides of the day*

![IMG_20211014_075630.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdCTyo16HVu8J5m4tqvx1AQQ8UgFwFCk28H7f2GA6YqHA/IMG_20211014_075630.jpg) *We exchange wedding ring*

![IMG_20211014_083411.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQcV5Za1BusFE7ubCbDCbEnwBsqNzCq4A6ptBzUhBwWj2/IMG_20211014_083411.jpg) We exchange ring

![IMG_20211014_075516.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmfZNNqNZjiXVwDYpqNwDCxDv6Nfpyytjki9LfhXoUQjsq/IMG_20211014_075516.jpg) *Our dancing steps*

![IMG_20211014_075538.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcahQDP1xLSLahNo5F1AZrgPJf65X5fDY2fgakweAfwP1/IMG_20211014_075538.jpg) *Dancing steps 🎶*

### WATCH ME SING FOR MY CRONY ❤️😍 https://youtu.be/kPbCWzxht-s ### THANK YOU STEEMIANS

![IMG-20210918-WA0078.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdzDAYPTUxzr7DB7TXL9xrPyLCr9CT5JBVTPKte6qitr6/IMG-20210918-WA0078.jpg)

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![IMG-20210918-WA0056.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYeXzFLgAVeW8DC5D5xKsFrA42tbcd2fxK1gV3U6vBcXW/IMG-20210918-WA0056.jpg)

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It was really amazing, I want to appreciate all steemians that were with me both on zoom and were also present physically. I noticed steemians from Venezuela, Asians, Parkistians, Ghanaians, Nigerians and more we say thank you so very much for joining us this day. Your remarkable turn out moved 3 people to signed up and reactivated 2 old users. #### A MESSAGE TO MY CRONY The moment I fell in love with you, I couldn't imagine my future without you being a part of it, you are the man I've given my heart to and I did that with full trust. My love, my best friend, my inspiration, with my whole heart full of joy I have taken you as my husband acknowledging and accepting your faults as my strengths as you do mine. I promise to be faithful and supportive and to always make our family happiness and love my priority. I will never take for granted how fortunate I am to have you as my husband I know there will be challenges and things will not always be perfect but I know I found my perfect looks and that's you. Thanks to Jah for our successful beginning, it was in deed a memorable one. ### CONCLUSION With my heart full of joy, I say thank you so very much to all steemians for your support I appreciate our country representative @ngoenyi for the coordination really she is a good representative. Thank you steemcurator01 for your full support. Looking forward to another steemian wedding soon

### GOOD BYE FRIENDS https://youtu.be/4S9V4m6uxcM ### Special mention @svm038 @steemwomensclub @saracampero @event-horizon @ngoenyi @stephenkendal @mcsamm ![Zskj9C56UonWToSX8tGXNY8jeXKSedJ2aRhGRj6HDecqrfGL9yzLNTzpVJdWyFZzDNFV6qLLHsHipi7L8PQ5X2vzSbVU6iRRGwQE4tr6w1XSN2p3AYwf.gif](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmT6xF6GYPmv7h8N722N9AoPXBtdfkQbqvXF7DSsvBgL4p/Zskj9C56UonWToSX8tGXNY8jeXKSedJ2aRhGRj6HDecqrfGL9yzLNTzpVJdWyFZzDNFV6qLLHsHipi7L8PQ5X2vzSbVU6iRRGwQE4tr6w1XSN2p3AYwf.gif) #### 10% of my post reward goes to @steemwomenclub ![Polish_20210708_195408137.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUtKPG6DCMbwCGkNPzki7KChh3NHicb8s8RBD6LHnGS5c/Polish_20210708_195408137.jpg)