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Assalam-O-Alaikum

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How are you? I hope you are all well. I am also perfectly well by the grace of Allah.
Life and death are in God's hands. We don't know where our next step will lead us. We plan a lot for life, but we don't know where death is waiting for us and our plans fall apart.

A good house, a good car and good clothes are the basic desires of every human being. Man strives for these things all his life. When I woke up in the morning, I got a call and they said that there was the death of a female in our family and I need your help.

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My sister-in-law and I got ready early in the morning, we pressed our clothes, and after that we went to the road from the local van. I only drank light tea from home, so I didn't feel like having breakfast in the morning. When we reached the relative's house, there were many guests.

We arrived about half an hour ago because the woman's funeral was at 11 o'clock. And then his funeral was held and she was buried. Two daughters, one was abnormal now, but the other was very brave. As soon as the woman was buried, the pots of chicken and naan etc.
were distributed among the guests.

That the guests who have come should eat in a good manner. I find it extremely bad that a death occurs in a person's house and you break down on food at the same time as if it is a matter of happiness for you.

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When you go to someone's house, if death happens like this, why should you avoid eating food because their grief is fresh, so things like this do not beautify and I think it is completely against the Islamic tradition.

If it is my choice, I will ban this thing, because people are already suffering, and by putting more money pressure on them from above, people are provided with good food to make them respectable. Well, after finishing there, we returned to my house and I ate there because I did not eat in that house.

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When a person changes, the whole society can change. Then, after resting for a while, we worked with Api in the field. The pictures which I am sharing with you were a lot of fun to do because we live in the city, so there are no such jobs. Now you get a lot of peace when you hit the soil with your hands and feet.

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Then we came back and Appi made food which had chicken and rice. We were late to go back home, so we decided we would go in the morning.

Thanks for reading my post.
>>>Best regards
@Samina -meenu

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