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----- *Hello friends how are you all doing today I hope all is well and you all are having a nice and wonderful day, today I will be sharing with you all an interesting insight base on the topic* ***"Lust and love"*** ---- *Now before I start let me ask you all a question, is lust really love? Because most people have been very confused with this and in our society today it is really getting out of hand.* ----- >Today we see a lady clinging on to a guy simply because of one thing or the other mainly money which of course I call that lust for money in disguise for love >On the other hand we see guys starring lustfully at a girl and approaching in disguise of love meanwhile the intentions are mainly for sexual benefits ----- *So now back to the question, below I will answer the question of lust is truly love or whether love on the other hand is lust in disguise.* ------- |

Lust and love

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----- *On the part of girls the lust for money has become the other of the day as I have seen a lady leaving a guy who truly loves her for another simply because of money and I can give an example of this* ----- >^{***This happened when I was still working as a waiter in a hotel, a guy came with his girlfriend it was a party and some dudes were throwing money around, and the girl was so attracted to the guy throwing the money and they kept making eye contact, I was observing them and then after awhile the girl stood up and went and sat with the guy leaving her boyfriend behind, simply because of money.***} ----- *Also let's not forget the part of guys as well, and this one is even worst than girls own, you will see a guy starring at a girls shape (figure 8) and at that point such a guy would do anything and make all kinds of promises in other to have an intercourse with such a lady, so now are you telling me that we also call that love, the answer is No* ----- *You will see a guy trying to play nice with a girl, acting all caring and concerned, making all the good promises, looking like husband material. But once he gets in bed with the girl, he changes his behavior and stops caring. That was strictly lust in disguise of love because such a guy was after one thing only, which is the girl's body, which is very bad.* ----- *So the deal is that lust isn't love; we shouldn't try to mix things up. Love is a pure intention that drives you towards trying to connect with a person for the purpose of spending and building a life and family together.* ----- ![1000088061.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZexXKczkHgqcFcrpV8xfaVDyWZHEfnxpV3KZPh8H8vfG/1000088061.jpg) ^{Picture source}

----- *Love is when a person is 100% perfect in your eyes and you have romantic and passionate feelings for such a person and would want to spend your whole life with him or her; that is love.* ----- ***Note*** >^{***When love has a reason, then it isn't love anymore; it is lust because you only desire that one thing in that person, and without that thing, you would despise him or her and wouldn't want to be with them.***} ----- *So, please, my readers, let us all try and make the feelings we have for that special person as pure as gold, not because of any material or physical things, but for the fact that we want to be with them because they are special; let love lead.* ----- ^{***This will be the end of my entry and I will like to invite*** @arroise, @sojib1996 & @anowarhoussain} ------