Hello to everyone in Steem india Community. I am hereby participating in this weeks contest which is "Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep". I find this topic very interesting cause it not only give me a chance to tell people who I'm it also gives me time to think about good and bad qualities i have. This is some sort of a self realization post which will help me to think more about me and develop my personality. So lets dive into it. --- ## Things I'd keep ---- |The way i maintain my Relationship with my Friend| |-| ![Snapchat-37059654_edited.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZyFr7ZBPzCSrWAC8tXGFoJJ7dTX8JLz1Gx643Gzjbnzy/Snapchat-37059654_edited.jpeg) Before going further let me tell you I'm an introvert guy so i don't have my relationships to maintain but i have some people in my Circle who are priceless for me. I'm only friends with 4 people they are more like Brothers to me and everytime they need me or i need them we are all there for each other. No matter the situation. These are two Best Friends in picture. I can talk about our friendship all day but i don't think this post demands that maybe some other day. |The way i treat Girls| |-| Everybody should respect girls because they deserve every bit of it. And i can proudly say that i do that from all my heart. My father died when i was six. Since then mother take full responsibility of me and my sister and give us good upbringing. I actually argue with my mother alot but that the way I'm. There's love in those arguements. I deeply love my mother and respect her more then any one in my life. |Dedication to do things i want to do| |-| I'm a lazy guy but only when i have to get up and do things i don't like to do. I invest all my energy only in doing things that i like to do. I only want to follow the path of profession which I'm passionate about so i don't give my self two options. I only dedicate my self in doing things that i love to do. I don't force anything on myself. # Things I'd want to change # 1.Laziness As mentioned above I'm a lazy person and i would really like to change that i have a dream to travel the world and i know my Laziness may pull me back in this journey. I mean who would like to awake late in the morning and miss his fight to canada or dubai that would be so bad after all the hard work of getting a chance on it. I will surely work on it. # 2.Making Excuses My Dedication level was at peak last year when i joined gym to live a healthy life style but then i lived town for six month and work kept me away from gym and when i come by i lost my motivation for gym and exercise. I would really like to change it as soon as possible. I will light up the loving candle i once have for Gym and fitness get back to the right track. # 3.Love for study I was a bright student in my junior school. I used to study in a private school till tenth grade. After that my family changed my school and admitted me in government school and my mentally changed there. When i started studying in Government School i see students their find it so difficult to study English and Mathematics. And till tenth i was great in both of the subjects so i started feeling myself superior then them. And i actually ended up losing my interest in studying and droped commerce feild mid semester. I ended up doing art and taking BCA after 12th standard But Now i have made my mind to do Ielts and study abroad so i will make up for the mistakes i have made earlier in my life. That was it for this post. I have analyzed my self and my journey over the years to write this post and find out what changes will really help me grow. Now that i have found it i will do my best to these changes to grow my personality.