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#### Preamble ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

Hello, dynamic steemians in steemalive community and steemit block chain as a whole. It's a great privilege to reach out to you today through my blog. I will be sharing some thought base on my experiences that men got to get tougher when life get tough.

#### Life is not for gentle men. ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

One mustn't conditioned his life to see it as one that is fare. Nothing works except people take the bull by the horns to work things out. Life isn't for feeble men in a generic term. To be a strong man in this contest doesn't mean one with muscles but the tenacity to withstand strong hits of life and still pressed forward until the desire dreams is achieved.

#### No retrieve, No surrender ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

Not retrieving nor surrendering in the phase of challenges, mishap, failure, disappointment, rejection is the heart of a man that is tough. Infact, no man is regarded as a tough man when he hasn't pass through fire and water. A winner in whistling isn't one that has not recieve blows but one that hasn't surrendered despite the blows. The more you press forward even in the midst of issues the more harder you become. Gold isn't gold, except it passes through strong for purification.

#### Don't you ever quit. ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

Troubles, blows, discouragement and others are your opponent in life. When you quit your dreams and goals, it therefore means you have loss to your opponent. You can never be called a failure except you decide to quit. Failing only give you another opportunity to try but doesn't make you a failure. A failure is one that surrenders, I mean, quit a particular pursuit in life. So, I tell you, don't you ever quit.

#### Prepare to meet tough moments ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

A whole lot of people only see things in a positive angle alone. They forget that, circumstances can turn things around. This breaks them when it happens because they never expected such. The consciousness of experiencing tough time in your life pursuit gives you a prepared mind to face it without fainting. Preparing for tough moments gives you a great advantage and the morale to handle issues.

#### It's possible to succeed in life. ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

The possibility to succeed is on the greater percentage. No situation is stronger or tougher than a man if the right knowledge and approach is applied. Nothing is impossible when it has to do with achievements. Keep the focus and despise the blows. To be an experienced person in any field, you must experience different tough time. Take it from me, it's highly possible to succeed if and only if you can persist a little while.

#### Conclusion ![C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc (1).png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmY55GvgNDRGeSGse1FzY2ZWk8jFsLEk8VJ6DrX4zLiXhn/C3TZR1g81UNaPs7vzNXHueW5ZM76DSHWEY7onmfLxcK2iPZ739PtAp81knE2xSziNTZqYJRxNLKJZyZHLHwRPR9cVHQF6FgXdfBbHBiZDu2LUQK8wDQT3Pc%20(1).png)

No man glories in another man's success. Success is personal and some things are worth facing alone. We all have our different tough moment and it's on us to face it squarely in order to arrived at success. Treat tough moments as nutritious meals for your success. I hope this meet you well. Cc: @steemalive @focusnow @ijelady @chichieze [Know me more](https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@nsikakedem/my-achievement1-to-cryptokannon-steemit-mentorship-by-nsikakedem)