Hello, friends welcome to my post in which I have discussed "Powerful Debate - Love vs Capability" as part of my participation in this Steemit Challenge S24W2 | organized by @vishwara. ![1000027621.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmc4T6MwreWqjMcjHhKf1FdhD9as1P61YM39vynWRP1f2f/1000027621.jpg) _{By freepik} A mother is the woman who beautifully balances her careers and family life too. She works harder to support her family's needs while also fulfilling her personal dreams and the ambition's. A working mother shows the strength, resilience, and love by managing her the professional responsibilities and caring for her children. She teaches her kids the importance of the hard work, independence, and the following one's dreams. Though her days are busy and sometimes challenging, her heart always belong so to her family. A working mother proves that the love is not measured by the time but by dedication care and the values that she passes on. *"The hands that works outside also wipe tears, heal wounds, and shape the bright futures at home"* > Should Mothers be judged for pursuing their careers and dreams? # A mother’s heart often carries the weight of the two worlds, the world of nurturing's her children and the world of chasing her own dreams. Society often praises the all mother who sacrifices everything for the her family, but judges those mothers who dares to the dreams for herself. Is this fair or not? Some believes that the "perfect mother" devotes all her time to the her children believing constant presence equals for perfect care. They argue that pursuing the career means neglecting the sacred duty of the motherhood. On the other side the mother who follows her ambitions shows her children the value of the self-respect hard work and the purpose of life. She teaches them that dreams do not end with the motherhood rather they evolved with this. *"A working mother is not divided between her family and her career; she is doubling her strength for both."* A mother’s love can not measured by the hours she spends at the home but by the that values which she passes on. Whether staying home or working, the real and basic question is that *Is she nurturing her children’s hearts while nourishing her own spirit?* Judging the mothers for dreaming is the unjust. A good mother is not one who sacrifices the herself completely but one who shows that her children that love strengths and dreams can be beautifully coexistenced. ![1000027622.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmRffV2vgQwRXeXoHMF4qCFoZ5CCGfRV8D5ZApmKZfT6Ao/1000027622.jpg) _{By freepik} > Is a mother who focuses on her work life and neglects the responsibility of her children, can she still be called a "perfect mom"? "They said a good mother never puts herself first but she wondered who would tell her daughter that her dreams mattered too?" A mother who focuses only on the her works life and neglects the emotional and physical needs of the her children cannot truly be called the "perfect mom." Children need love, attention, and guidance as much as they need the comfortable life. However, it’s very important to remembered that pursuing the dreams does not automatically means the neglection. *"They said a good mother never puts herself first, but she wondered who would tell her daughter that her dreams mattered too?"* This powerful thought reminds us that the mother who follows her dreams teaches her children important life lessons abouts the self-respect, ambition, and the balance in life. The true essence of the good mother lies in finding the balance between nurturing's her children and the honoring her own's identity. A perfect mother is not the one who's erases herself but one who raised the children by showing them that dreams, self-worth, and the love can all coexist beautifully. > What defines a good mother? A mother who commits all her life to her children, raising them, or a mother who works day and night to build a better future for her children while holding on to her dreams? A good mother cannot be defined by the only one path. Whether she commits the her whole life to raising her children at the home or works the day and nights to build the better future while following these her dreams, her love, care, and the intentions matters the most. A mother who stays at the home gives her children her constant presence, emotional security, and the daily guidances. On the other hand, a working mother teaches the resilience, ambition, and the strength by showing that dreams are the worth chasing, even while nurturing the family. ![1000027625.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQ1C5fWbazUHxbcp9tnz1mpskCkU95QqE43Ua1VU19c8S/1000027625.jpg) _{By freepik} *"She wears many hats — worker, mother, teacher, dreamer — and still manages to smile with love in her heart."* What truly defines the good mother is her ability to love selflessly, supports the her children’s growth, and raised them into the confidential and kind individuals. It’s not about the where she is but how she makes her the children feel loved, safe, and the inspired. A good mother is the one who balances her responsibilities with the her heart teaching her children that dreams and the family can thrives together. I would like to invite my friends @drhira @bismalaraib @suboohi for participating in this contest.