![suffering-154637_1280.webp.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmfZeYWog4sqGYQVRk3Muh1ce6ma6ZiJ4rEhnXiwyKpzTB/suffering-154637_1280.webp.png) [Source](https://pixabay.com/vectors/suffering-comics-hopeless-noise-154637/) Chancing upon this post I searched my brain for any of my relatives who have visited or still visits that is annoying. While going through I remembered when my younger brother used to be a terror in our home. I don't know what it is with only sons but they sha can disturb a lot. We used to fight a lot some years ago as he was stubborn and recalcitrant and I no gree hear word😂. Do you see it as a burden or an added advantage when your relatives visits you?| ---| For relatives who we have good relationships, it's always a joy to have them visit as camaraderie flows effortlessly but when a relative isn't really in good terms with you or your parents there is always this friction and it's obvious to everyone that can see, then it becomes a burden having them visit. Is there a relative you find to be very annoying that you detest his or her presence in your house?| ---| This will be my younger brother. I literally would have bought this iron pant of a thing if I knew where they sell it back then😂.Anytime he comes home, there would likely be a quarrel between him and somebody. He always had this atmosphere of aggression and as one who doesn't like that, I always detested his being at home. ![young-beautiful-african-american-afro-woman-with-curly-hair-wearing-red-casual-sweater-celebrating-mad-crazy-success-with-arms-raised-closed-eyes-screaming-excited-winner-concept_839833-24935.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb3ZpHcZPtzu7KkgtRNowQeARmfXT9i6a8HPym24eioUV/young-beautiful-african-american-afro-woman-with-curly-hair-wearing-red-casual-sweater-celebrating-mad-crazy-success-with-arms-raised-closed-eyes-screaming-excited-winner-concept_839833-24935.jpg) [Source](https://www.freepik.com/free-photo/young-beautiful-african-american-afro-woman-with-curly-hair-wearing-red-casual-sweater-celebrating-mad-crazy-success-with-arms-raised-closed-eyes-screaming-excited-winner-concept_53264692.htm#fromView=search&page=1&position=4&uuid=25ec3504-78ef-43f2-af71-af0c14e945d1&query=Someone+shouting+angrily) Share your experience with this relative of yours| ---| A lot of times he would use my personal properties, be it a shirt,trouser( it was that bad) even singlet and when he's done , he would hide it for months and I'll be asking everyone in the house if they saw it. Of course he would say no. Then one day the cloth will mystically appear but by this time, it had grown algae due to where he hid it. It got so bad that I didn't have any jean trousers again, as he didn't care whether it was female or male jeans, he would wear. Is it possible for one's relatives to divide one's home? Explain| ---| It is very possible oh. I have seen this happen a lot of times to a good number of people I now both relatives and far stretched acquaintances. I have this elder cousin though extended family, who used to be a terror in his family house. He would always throw tantrums whenever his demands were not met. His mother was always going out of her way to make sure his demands were met so they would have peace in the house but alas, once the money in his hands were exhausted, he would lok for something to cause trouble, someone's property to sell, someone to fight with. He instilled so much fear in that house that his siblings preferred to stay away from home than to come back. Whenever they came back, they were always walking on egg shells. It was terrible, so yes, ones relative can divide a home comfortably. I invite @pandoradiary @hyacinthfavour and @beewrites to participate.