![2025-03-2811.51.15-1648387720.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmapg5W8jGvr15m66YDAeKZW4rtp8J5M9vowZEdBtzWVy4/2025-03-2811.51.15-1648387720.jpg) Greetings everyone.

How are you all doing, I pray and hope that you all are very well in all aspects of your life.Today I will be participating in a contest organized by our follow member @bossj23 in this wonderful community and I promise to do my best in puting down all that is in me into the contest. ![pen-5573665_1280.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmeUkHC811EGAk6FRXo7CWmCxy5uSHgbStkgPDdBaLvBVC/pen-5573665_1280.jpg)[source](https://pixabay.com/photos/pen-notebook-paper-note-business-5573665/) This contest here brings back the memory of what happened back then in my secondary school when I was in senior secondary one popularly call the SS1, and it something that will never forget in my life time.

What have you lost in life that made you cry or feel distressed? Could be inanimate or animate. Narrate your experience

I lost one thing in my life that uptill today am still in pain of that things. Back then in my secondary school day when I was in SS1 I use to have a diary which I write all my personal life story in they and that diary not was my one thing I run to in time of trouble, happiness, when am sad, and that diary knew everything about me. Until one day when I check my locker way I usage keep it and it was no way to be found. That moment way I didn't see it my whole heart turn upside down and my blood pressure right that I couldn't even say anything with tears running down my cheeks and my lips start moving slowly with some how pain in my heart.

Did you blame yourself for the loss or were you meant to lose that thing? How did the losses affect you?

I put all the blame on myself because I suppose not to leave that diary inside that locker at first, knowing very well that the are a lot of my classmates that always looking for an opportunity to know about my personal life since I was an introvert, I don't really associated with people and I just spending my time alone with my diary which was my best friend. ![female-865110_1280.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmU43L9rx8ahqMiZz2VBxyGqnDf5bLGNVV6NfWWuZydoh6/female-865110_1280.jpg)[source](https://pixabay.com/photos/female-diary-journal-write-865110/) At some point I didn't really blame myself for the lost because after my diary was gone and a lot of People in that school read about my personal life it really open a way for me and started making friends, some people who use to think that I have price later understand the kind of person I was and later apologize for their act.

Were you able to let bygones be bygone or are you still in pain for the loss?

When that happens I was like one of my backbone has been taken away from me and requires a lot of time to heal but at times goes on I was trying my best to let go of the memory but I still come back in full fold which makes it hard to forget about it until now. The memory of my diary note, the time we share together in time of happiness, sadness and a lot more was really hurt and uptill now am still in search of that diary even due I know that the diary must have been damage in the hand of the person that took it, the memory of it is still in my heart. ![new-year-background-1850177_1280.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbjd33iXUZp29TvztLMDVhk3Z3MohWgPNftCMc4DgtXMV/new-year-background-1850177_1280.jpg)[source](https://pixabay.com/photos/new-year-background-adult-diary-1850177/)

What advice would you give to the public who may have lost something or someone precious to them?

My own part of adves to people who might face this kind of lost is that, they normally say that emotion heal as time pass but it may be hard for somebody that is an introvert. Try to adjust your limits on everything in this life so that when things life this happen it will not really affect your life style. In this life always try to have a limit in anything that comes your way due taking life serious is important but living a simple life matter a lot. So always try to live a simple life so your emotions will not really hurt whn things happen to you. This is way I will like to stop for today and thank you so much for going through my blog, I really appreciate you all. I will like to invite @shohana1 @entity01 @davidmotiva To join this contest too Cc.@bossj23