___ Glad to be back in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S6-W3 contest in a challenge with the theme "The influence of parental behavior on children's physical and mental health" organized by the Steem kids parents community. ![jpg_20221209_214211_0000.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmXXuJo4xxVkpXogtF3M1qFe3XKwTr9m8Aa9SEDZpKypYZ/jpg_20221209_214211_0000.jpg) Becoming parents is not as easy as we imagine because so far the sacrifices of parents have been perfect for me, when there was no school our parents had always taught us about the attitude and behavior of being good parents, even though educating children requires mental readiness. strong children so that they become ideal parents for their children so as not to instill deviant behavior in their children later. However, every parent in this world wants the best for their baby. So every parent will try to play their respective roles according to the character that has been embedded in them, namely their children. 1.How did your parents' behavior affect you? (Positive or negative)? So far and have grown up I have been raised by my parents, namely my mother and when I was small I no longer had male parents, not divorced but died when I was under the age of around 12 years and now I am very grateful for what what my parents taught their children including myself and taught the most important thing was adap and manners and then about good behavior and loving each other and of course I am very grateful that until now I can still see my daughter's parents, namely my mother , since I grew up until I had a family, I still couldn't make my parents happy like my parents made me happy when I was little until I grew up. As a human being and as a mother who has to work hard to care for her child, this is not easy for parents , sometimes he has a negative attitude towards us children. For example, he often feels excessive anxiety that curbs our children's activities. And often when there are negative things that happen we are always blamed and that is natural in my own opinion. ![IMG-20221209-WA0018.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmP5269NCBsuARm7JaxvCoCVDENBL4t1K7VsJTeucCcRpd/IMG-20221209-WA0018.jpg) **big family in watching their children grow up** 2.Which of your parents' behavior do you like the most? Everything about my parents' behavior I liked about my parents' procedures taught me to share and love one another, and even when it's wrong parents won't scold their children but will give a warning not to repeat it again if it's wrong in the eyes of our parents. but I really like the behavior of my parents until now, always taking care of their children in polite manners and not hurting other people. 3.What is the best way parents can instill good Values in their children? The best way for parents to be able to instill positive values in children is through approaching and being us as friends as well as their children, that's how parents start teaching good values. And that is also what my parents applied in educating us as their children. ![IMG-20221209-WA0108.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmVnMByCcKbpx4mKsqkC2gkyqS2UFZatYaDgJ2rKxXbB65/IMG-20221209-WA0108.jpg) 4.What is the best way parents can instill good Values in their children? Everything is very good and second to none and everyone definitely wants their children to be successful and grow up. That's what I can share in this challenge, hopefully it will be useful for me personally, and I will invite some steemians to participate in this great contest @aril.hatake, @mahyulmaulan, @akmal1, @moer CC @pennsif **Best regards @fajrulakmal99**