![](https://steemitimages.com/DQmS9N7DNT1uiWJNrS2v85kTJxgiTqFsdWc3WLYYbEsUoHH/image.png) [Image Source](![](https://steemitimages.com/DQmS9N7DNT1uiWJNrS2v85kTJxgiTqFsdWc3WLYYbEsUoHH/image.png)) >Good Afternoon steemians. Hope that you have a great day. ### I just want to share to all girls in here how to keep your boyfriend or your husband. * Do not keep on repeating things that already happened in the past. Because the past is past and it will never be back again. He has learned from them. He has become mature. Don’t bring up issues in the past. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmTKJDK7BtaVQi8JE3KmGwMnZig3JFhyXz13Jwj4ywP87S/image.png) * Surprise him. Not just only a girl need a surprise. We are human too and need a surprise every day in our lives. It is not only boys who need to have efforts to make the relationship work. Girls should do the same. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbmkBaz8HLgTpaA91ZfxpaeYDa6MgLjGr28PyHLpgvdL6/image.png) * Understand that he is not perfect. Yeah. because we are all not perfect. Only Jesus is perfect and no one else. He gets tired. He gets stressed. He gets pissed off. He has lapsed but he is trying his best. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmRYRoNZ6EpxjvVz8zHqepgWNbaNuRa5Nzpkngw6vsdRn2/image.png) * Lower your pride as well. That's right! not every time that we need to low our pride. They will have a time that you will need to. It is not always all the time that he needs to adjust with you. You do your part as well to make the relationship work. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmWAcc1vZFM16H7avxTHLVXmdAGovhovpm6t7JFDUEWUhK/image.png) * Understand that boys will have time for their friends as well. Everyone needs a friend. Especially if you have a team in basketball. We need time for the team we have or which we call a friend. Having a friend is important. Do not guard him or do not be too strict when he plans to go out with friends. Give him your trust and everything shall follow. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmaYXqhvcspRroJuLTBex8MCSS8FVMMKEAGSMQLDYWsxkk/image.png) * Ask him how his day went. We want a sweet message too. You can give him a massage and make him feel that it was just a bad day and it gets better. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmeQg8YoPaW3aUiiNyCXdak85rS8w1qwaGyzVLpcETmize/image.png) * Make sure that you are loyal to him and you are not playing with any other teams. Yeah. because in this generation, not just a boy playing a game but a girl also. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPCFWRzEdZBJr9H9RzpHtGmvgc8yBhUQxhNkXuu5nTYvj/image.png) * Cook him tasty food to really win his heart. That's what I like and love much. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdWjaV9mD81Qj86zWGsjfESkvh5uXXMbqhcr4UA9aVF9q/image.png) * Appreciate his efforts every day. because we need it too. To make as pursue of what we did. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmV8RorDkj6sJppx7Vyj9Zv2jtDyZj7mZhjzdJLfZ2McKa/image.png) * Make him a priority. Always and forever. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUMMT1ZyuUFKbxyeWqrfoBRCFXZHQeU5yUjwZXsokrLef/image.png) **Boys have needs as girls do. There will never be a perfect guy, but one thing is for sure, not all boys are the same. It is too lame to generalize. You just love the wrong guy. Do not love a fuck boy so you would not cry over it on social media. Choose wisely!** ### Thank you and God bless.